Question to Bella:  How does it feel to be an up and coming celebrity?

Answer:  Right now it feels like I'm playing a part in a movie because of all that is happening in my life but I'm really just grateful for all of those people and companies who believed in me and have revealed a little of my story or just thought I was someone they could even invest in.  They saw the value in me and took chances and went against the grain.  That takes courage.  I'm forever grateful. I feel like I've been immortalized.

What about being a media target?

Answer: Most celebrities are targets however, with today's technology it's getting really weird and
almost anyone can get information about you.  Unfortunately, a lot of people use technology for
hurting others or infringing on their privacy.  It depends on the situation and there are always rules to follow.

It also makes way for people who are listening in to be very critical of the things you say.  I just have to remember that no one is perfect and that my thoughts are just that and people say things they don't mean to say sometimes. That's why that's a dangerous thing to do, target people.  People may try and hurt you because they feel you've hurt them but if they put themselves in your shoes I think they'd get it. The technology can also cause swelling in your body and damage to your skin and face and causes hair loss.  Skin oil of some type is good to prevent damage to your skin. Some people use it to get even because they feel you've hurt them or just because
they don't like you or they're jealous. My doctors have also noticed a difference in my appearance such as swelling of my nose.  Some days I don't look like myself at all and look rather average however, I'm a very attractive person.  I've received a lot of hate but I am.

Are you religious?

I'm spiritual and believe people have the right to believe in whatever religion they want to.  You don't have to agree. It becomes critical and possibly even deadly when people result to violence just because someone has different beliefs.  I believe in expressing yourself.


Someone asked: I am always being audited and harassed by the govt' since starting my media business and I found that my ex-boyfriend was in the military and had received orders to investigate. Another friend of mine I dated was also with the govt or CIA and we had to part because he was trying to set me up with the police and defend his family to cover up their abuses to me and my family.  How do I defend myself against this? He also tried to date my ex husband but we are starting to believe they are still trying to make me upset so they can put me in jail as a lot of them are trying to hide their secrets.  .  I think he must be in some kind of trouble but I can't help him.  How do I end this?...

Answer: Clearly this is a conflict of interest.  He has to know this can not continue.

It is nearly impossible to prosper in any way or form when you are surrounded by those who are constantly criticising you.  Constructive criticism is always good if it comes from someone you know that has your best interest at heart and are not motivated by getting something for themselves.  Remove people from your life who are causing you to view life as being bland or who make you feel your dreams are impossible to achieve or that you don't deserve them.  As soon as you do that you'll feel a lot better.  It's easy, simply tell them you appreciate all they've done but now it's time to move on especially, when too many hands are in the pot.  If you are the boss, you are the boss.  Always give back to those who helped you if and when you can and who appreciate your friendship or business partnership. Have a great day.